The New Kiss Test:
– and how to avoid rejection in the modern dating age…
May 2001,
From his one-bedroom apartment in San Diego, a brilliant guy in his late 20s launched a website called ‘Double Your Dating.’
On this website, he shared a technique which he pioneered called the ‘Kiss Test.’ An easy yet effective way to tell if a woman is ready to be kissed.
Making him one of the founding fathers of the dating advice industry.
His name is Eben Pagan (David DeAngelo).
And for 10+ years, he shared his test with over a million men (his peak email subscriber count) who used it to kiss women and avoid rejection… before ultimately selling his business.
His website no longer exists, and he has moved on to other things.
But I had the good fortune early in my coaching career to spend time with him in Chicago, picking his brain.
And many of his insights are still valid to this day.
However, a lot of things have changed since the Kiss Test was introduced in 2001.
Back then, online dating barely existed. And people were listening to music on Compact Discs (CDs) with their Walkmans – portable audio players.
But today, online dating is the most popular way people meet. And Walkmans + CDs can be found primarily in garbage dumps with other outdated technology.
That’s why I decided to revive and update Eben’s technique for the modern dating age. So you can use the New Kiss Test whether you prefer online dating or meeting women in real life.
But first…
Allow me to briefly introduce myself – in case you are asking: “Who are you? And why should I listen to you?”
My name is B. Herman Schneider. But I’m known as Herman The German (Dating Engineer).
And I specialize in dating systems and dating efficiency.
Since 2012 – I help smart, single guys optimize their dating lives…
So they’re equipped to:
- Meet women they like every day…
- Go on hot dates every week…
- Attract and keep their ideal woman for life…
And they don’t have to be rich or handsome to do it.
My Efficient Dating Systems work especially well for introverted, shy, or divorced men.
My clients didn’t believe it until they tried my systems firsthand.
So I understand if you’re suspicious.
And that’s why… to earn your trust, I share The New Kiss Test with you.
Auf geht’s! (Let’s go!)
“Before you can kiss a woman, she first must be comfortable with your touch. And before you can touch her, she first must be comfortable with the idea of being touched by you.”
Look…
In online dating, your first date will also be the first time you meet her in person.
This means that you need to move the interaction from the digital to the physical world as fast as possible.
Why?
The longer you wait to initiate touch, the more awkward the transition will feel for her – confirmed by my own experiences and those of my clients + a behavioral neuroscience study by Dutch neuroscientist Sjoerd J.H. Ebisch.
So be careful… since an awkward date is a guaranteed one-way ticket to the friend zone.
But there is a simple and non-creepy way to start on the right foot… with the added bonus of making it easier on yourself to lead your date toward a kiss:
Greet her with a hug!
Greet her like she’s a good friend whom you haven’t seen in a long time.
It creates a feeling of familiarity, so she’ll let her guard down – Limbic synchrony.
And by touching her right out of the gate…
… you instantly get her comfortable with the idea of being touched by you during the date. Because it triggers the release of oxytocin (the love hormone).
Now, what if you met her in real life and not through online dating?
In that case, the Kiss Warm-Up will also work for the same reasons – German efficiency in action. 😉
So remember for your next date: hug first, kiss later.
Combined with a hug greeting as your Kiss Warm-up…
… the proven Kiss Test with its long track record of success, will still work today – revealing if your date is ready to be kissed by you.
Now, I don’t want to hold anything back from you…
So here is the raw and unfiltered original version from Eben (David DeAngelo):
“I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice…” but I didn’t know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn’t get another chance.
Here’s what I do now:
If I’ve been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she’s ready to be kissed, I’ll reach over and touch her hair while we’re talking and make a comment about it. I’ll say “Your hair looks so soft” and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and likes this, I’ll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she’s ready to be kissed.
By using “The Kiss Test” I’ve been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven’t given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she’s ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected – and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out.”
Congrats!
Just by taking action and finishing this exclusive report, you’re already ahead of most single men.
According to research by the Reading Agency, at least 65% never complete the non-fiction resources they start.
And your reward is that you now know how to tell if a woman is ready to be kissed.
All that’s missing to make the most out of the New Kiss Test is a constant stream of opportunities to use it…
So if you’d like a 100% tailor-made action plan on how to get more hot dates with attractive women – and how to avoid settling for a woman who’s not right for you…
… just click the red button below, and you’ll be taken to a website with all the details:
Because you are a man of action! 🚀