FOR SMART, SINGLE MEN ONLY:
Discover how to optimize your dating life...
Using the very first Efficient Dating Systems
made in Germany...
Discover how to optimize your dating life... Using the very first Efficient Dating Systems
made in Germany...
Discover how to optimize your dating life... Using the very first Efficient Dating Systems
made in Germany...
My systems work especially well for introverted, shy, or
inexperienced men. My clients didn’t believe it until they
tried them firsthand. So I understand if you’re suspicious…
My systems work especially well for introverted, shy, or inexperienced men. My clients didn’t believe it until they tried them firsthand. So I understand if you’re suspicious…
Dear smart, single guy…
I know you’ve been promised many things in the past that didn’t work out the way you expected.
So, to avoid this and to start on the right foot:
Will you allow me to ask you a few simple questions to make sure my Efficient Dating Systems are truly for you?
That way, you can decide for yourself if they’re what you’re looking for.
Are my Efficient Dating Systems made for you?
Just between us:
- Are you single (and tired of it)?
- Are you between 25 and 49 years old?
- Are you generally happy with your life – except for having the right woman by your side?
- Do you have a busy work schedule that makes meeting women difficult?
- Aren't you tired of seeing other men dating the kind of woman you want?
- Do you feel like there's something missing when it comes to cracking the code of women and dating… but you can't figure out what it is?
- Do you feel that you've missed the boat and aren’t where you want to be… like you're stuck in the same spot for years while your friends are getting married, having kids, and enjoying the love life you wish you had?
- Or maybe you're like my client Marco, who recently got divorced after a 4-year marriage and doesn't know how to get over his ex-wife?
- Or are you more like Michael, who is trying to move on after his breakup... but now has lost his attraction and dating skills after being in a relationship for so long?
- Perhaps you're more like my client Peter, who goes on dates regularly, but with women he isn't really into... because he struggles with attracting the kind of woman he wants?
- Or maybe you’re like my client Andrew... he’s 35 and worries about running out of time and getting too old to attract young and beautiful women?
- You don’t want to settle for a woman you are not that into because of a lack of options?
- Would you like to wake up next to your ideal woman softly hugging and kissing you?
If this is you, then I have some good and bad news…
Why has dating become so complicated?
Let’s start with the bad news.
It was never as difficult for single men to find their significant other as it is today.
Here’s why:
Reason #1: There are way more single men between the ages of 25-49 than single women...
That’s what the Pew Research Center reported in 2020.
In fact, 51% of all men between 18-29 in the US are single.
But for women, it’s only 32%:
There are far LESS single women than single men in the U.S. Simply put: “There aren’t enough lids for all the pots.”
The shocking truth:
There are at least 2 men fighting for the same woman.
And it’s even worse if you’re a single man above 30.
First, you have to compete with younger men.
Second, there are fewer single women between 30-49 than in any other age range.
But it’s not just in the US.
Reason #2: Older men no longer teach younger guys how to attract women...
My dad was married by the age of 21.
But when I was 21, I couldn’t even say ‘hi’ to a woman without having a few drinks.
It’s not the best example of rock-solid, unshakeable, and grounded masculine confidence, right?
I hate to admit it but I’m jealous of my dad.
When he was a teenager, the older guys in his neighborhood showed him how to act around women. And when he got older, he taught the new kids. It was like a torch being passed on from generation to generation.
But my dad never sat me down and taught me how to behave around women.
When I asked him why, he replied: “I assumed your older brother or his friends would teach you.”
I’m sorry dad, but those times are long gone.
Reason #3: Society sends mixed signals about what it means to be a man...
Look at the world today:
- There are 72 genders...
- Society is celebrating men getting pregnant as the new normal...
- France has passed a law forbidding men to approach women in public. So you cannot even say hello to a woman in Paris (the city of love) of all places...
- Most men are afraid to compliment a coworker because they’re scared of getting fired...
- If you sit in public with your legs apart so you don’t squeeze your balls, it can be considered an aggressive male posture (a.k.a manspreading)...
- In the workplace, many men are worried about sharing their expertise with female colleagues to avoid being accused of mansplaining...
- The slogan “Men are trash” is so popular that t-shirts with this message are being sold everywhere...
Here’s a screenshot of Etsy.com. T-shirts, sweaters, phone cases, etc. with the same slogan are also being sold on Amazon and other sites.
- Society is telling men to be more feminine...
- Some "woke" activists are labeling all masculinity as “toxic”...
Meanwhile, media outlets such as Vice magazine and the New York Post report:
Ukrainian president Volodymyr Zelesnkyy became an instant sex symbol for staying in Ukraine to fight the Russians instead of running away like a coward.
They praise him for embodying all the qualities that some would label as ‘toxic masculinity.’
At no point in history were men so confused about what it means to be a man.
And scientific research shows this confusion also affects men physiologically:
Testerone levels show a steady decrease among young men, and the sperm count among western men has dropped by over 50 percent since 1973.
Reason #4: "Women don't know what they want anymore."
Men are not the only ones suffering:
“Where have all the good men gone?”
This is such a popular phrase that there are songs and books about it.
Multiple studies have shown what women truly want in a man.
Women are attracted to character traits primarily associated with masculinity:
Discipline, ambition, and not giving a f*ck attitude, to name a few.
This desire seems so deeply rooted that some studies even suggest women can smell if a man has those personality traits or not. But then the same studies also show women also want a kind man. No wonder you’re confused:
Do you have to be strong or kind?
Should you embrace your masculinity or your emotions?
If you’re lost, you aren’t alone.
It seems like even women don’t know what to pursue anymore:
Should they focus on their career or on starting a family?
Or both?
Reason #5: Traditional education doesn’t teach you about dating, sex, and love...
School doesn’t teach you how to behave like a man anymore.
There’s sex education but the biggest insight you’ll get there is how to put a condom on a banana.
And clubs like the Boy Scouts – the largest youth organization that helped shape boys into men for over a century – are now admitting girls as well. Despite the girls already having an organization of their own since 1912.
But as of now, the Girl Scouts don’t accept anyone who identifies as a boy.
Tell me who’s being discriminated against here?
No wonder so many boys are growing up without a clear definition of what it means to be a man.
Even some female teachers have pointed this out in a New York Times article.
Reason #6: Absence of rituals that turn boys into men...
Modern society doesn’t require men to undertake a rite of passage.
In the past, these rites were designed to teach men valuable survival skills. And to test their strength and resilience. If a boy successfully completed these rites, there would be a ceremony marking his transition from boyhood to manhood.
Renowned professor Robert L. Moore has described this in detail in his book, The Archetype of Initiation.
Young Masais would have to slay a lion with just a spear, so their tribe accepted them as men.
Also:
In most countries, men don’t have to serve in the military to learn about strength, discipline, and risk-taking.
Many credible studies in evolutionary biology have confirmed that these qualities are attractive to women.
So it’s not surprising that surveys show men today are having much less sex as compared to previous generations. Experts in psychology blame this trend on young men taking much longer than they should to grow up.
But how can they blame you if society lets you grow up confused?
Speaking of society…
Reason #7: Society shames you for being ignorant about things you were never taught...
Divorce rates and single-mom households have increased significantly.
So many boys grow up without a reliable masculine role model.
The worst part is:
Society still expects you to know how to attract a woman, maintain a healthy relationship, and be an extraordinary lover just because you have a d*ck.
And if you can’t do it, then people shame you and assume something’s wrong with you.
But how can you know something that nobody taught you?
It’s like assuming any man can fix a car just because he’s a MAN.
I definitely can’t.
Reason #8: What used to work for your dad and grandpa won’t work for you anymore...
The stereotype of men as breadwinners and women as homemakers is a thing of the past.
In many countries, including the US, more women than men have jobs:
In the US, women outnumber men in the workforce. So, women are no longer forced to rely on men for financial security like they used to.
This means for the first time in history…
Women don’t have to date, settle down, and put up with someone just for financial security.
She can decide who to date and be in a relationship with based solely on how much she loves a guy.
You have to bring your A-game.
Whereas your dad and grandpa could make way more mistakes and still attract and keep their girl.
Reason #9: Online dating is much harder for men than for women...
Online dating comes with a catch that dating apps like Tinder or Bumble don’t want you to know.
According to Statista, Tinder consists of 75.8% male and 24.2% female users:
There aren’t enough women on Tinder for every guy to get his girl.
And if you think Bumble’s any better, think again.
They say that they have a 50/50 ratio. But Statista shows that 67.4% of Bumbles users are male while only 32.6% are female. This isn’t surprising given that there are more single men than women in the U.S.
So don’t expect to find a dating app or site with more women than men:
Online dating is hard if you don’t know how to compete against the droves of guys who want the same thing as you.
In other words:
If you don’t know how to stand out from the other guys trying to get her attention, you’re doomed to fail at online dating before you even start swiping.
Reason #10: Too much misinformation… if it worked, you wouldn't be reading this right now:
Movies, TV shows, and magazines constantly bombard you non-stop with nonsense ideas on what women want.
And your male friends just repeat the same advice they keep seeing on TV.
I’ve actually tried it all:
I lost fat/gained muscle, bought a fancy car, and made my social media profiles seem like my life was always amazing.
You wanna guess what results I got from all that?
Nothing.
Also, whenever I asked women for dating advice, most of them said, “Treat her nicely and just be yourself.”
Every time I did it that the woman would end up with a guy who was doing exactly the opposite; being an a$$hole.
And don’t even get me started on the dating industry:
I respect everyone who’s sincerely trying to help single men, and I don’t want to talk badly about my profession.
But unfortunately:
There are way too many dating coaches, too many relationship courses, too much contradictory information… and a lot of it is useless.
Like in any profession, some “experts” are giving incomplete or false advice.
I’ve been working in the dating industry for over 10+ years. And many of my clients had worked with other coaches before but didn’t get the results they wanted.
Usually, it boils down to the following reasons:
- A lot of coaches are just very clever marketers: They make money by focusing solely on getting new clients. And they don't care how much they actually can help the men who've bought their services. That’s why, for the first 8 years of my career, I got clients by referral only. This forced me to deliver results, otherwise, I’d go broke…
- “Dating gurus” selling you a partial solution: It works just enough to give you hope. So you keep buying every new product they sell. Thinking it’s the next piece of the dating puzzle...
- Dating companies abusing AI to get you dates that waste your time and end up disappointing you: Many coaches promise to handle all of your online dating for you. Sure, AI or a real person acting on your behalf can get you matches and dates. But once attractive women meet you in person and realize you're not the man they thought you were, they won't ever want to see you again. I mean, do you enjoy being lied to? So remember... Fake Profile + Fake Texting = Fake Dates...
- Doing something and teaching others how to do it require two completely different skill sets: Some coaches are experts in attracting amazing women themselves but just can’t teach it to others…
- There are many coaches who are really great teachers and highly motivated to help you succeed: But what they teach works only in theory or for men who have the same personality as they do. For example, a famous influencer with millions of followers can teach you something believing it’ll work for you. But since you’re not a celebrity, it won’t. They may have the best intentions, but what truly matters are results…
I hope you’re not too depressed:
Because here’s the good news:
You didn’t know what was holding you back from meeting, attracting, and keeping your ideal woman…
Until now.
Here’s your chance:
Will you take this opportunity, fully grasp it, and seize it with your hands?
Or will you join the millions of men who never take advantage of opportunities and just complain about their bad luck?
You have no excuses anymore.
The choice is yours…
Choose wisely!
You're about to learn secrets most men will never know
about women and dating:
You're about to learn secrets most men will never know about women and dating:
Hi!
I’m B. Herman Mustermann, inventor of the Efficient Dating Systems Made in Germany.
But I’m known as Herman The German (Dating Engineer).
As a former ‘nice guy,’ I suffered a lot… until I got fed up with always seeing everyone but me get the girl. I went from getting rejected to women consistently saying ‘yes’ to me when I ask them out.
And it isn’t just a fake yes anymore; they really, deeply, and absolutely want to date me.
Me giving an interview about my dating discoveries in Cologne in 2015.
It was a long and painful journey to discover what really works in dating.
My journey involved countless embarrassing rejections, studying over 414 books, and taking three loans (19,609.87 Euros) to pay for various self-help seminars.
My goal is to save you time.
And help you avoid the pain and frustration I had to endure.
Plus, to offer you my experience…
So you can optimize your dating life and get the following results:
- Understand the difference between how men and women think about attraction, dating, and relationships to spark and maintain natural chemistry between you and the kind of woman you want…
- Stand out from the other guys that are trying to get her attention (no matter how attractive she is) without driving a Lamborghini, having 6-pack abs, or being the life of the party…
- Match with beautiful women consistently on dating apps/sites without looking like a model...
- Get over your fear of rejection: Talk to any woman you'd like to meet and start an interesting conversation without relying on pick-up lines (no matter how unsuccessful or afraid you’ve been in the past)...
- Flirt using sexual eye contact and body language to trigger lasting attraction...
- Know exactly what to say and do to get phone numbers and line up dates without women canceling at the last minute...
- Take women out on dates to fun places that are free: Save your hard-earned dollars if YOU decide your date is the wrong woman for you…
- Spot the signs that she is into you: Recognize when she’s ready for your kiss to avoid rejection...
- Lead her with confidence from the first date to the bedroom without coming across as "creepy"…
- Turn her on using secrets from the world's greatest lovers: Know exactly what women secretly wish all men knew about sex... but will never, ever tell to their face...
- Feel like you are enough: Stop worrying about being a good kisser, your p*nis size, or if you're as good as her previous lovers...
- Identify red flags in women to avoid a costly divorce, unwanted children, and other drama...
- Date amazing women until YOU pick the right woman to settle down with....
- Be in a happy, healthy relationship based on love and respect with your ideal woman, with whom you can start a family with...
… By following efficient step-by-step systems.
How do I know the Efficient Dating Systems made in Germany will work for you?
Because they rely on:
The power of Dating Pattern Recognition – data doesn’t lie!
What happens if you hold an apple high above your head and let it go?
It will fall to the ground. If you do it a thousand times, it will fall a thousand times.
In other words:
A pattern emerges, and we call it ‘Gravity.’
Gravity impacts all of us, even if we don’t understand how it works. And even if we believe that it doesn’t exist. Someone’s beliefs can’t defy the laws of physics.
The rules will always be the same, and so will the results:
The apple will hit the ground whether we like it or not.
You can’t argue with nature because nature always wins.
And patterns are everywhere:
“If you can recognize patterns, you have an edge. Things look like chaos until you recognize there’s a pattern to things. If you understand patterns and recognize them and you can use them, you have real power.” – Anthony Robbins
Best-selling author of 65 million self-help books and audio products. A renowned life coach whose client list includes Leonardo Di Caprio, Nelson Mandela, Hugh Jackman, and many others. Here you can see him with his client Conor McGregor.
“Human personality is a predictable and consistent science.” – Jordan Peterson, Ph.D.
World-renowned professor, clinical psychologist, and best-selling author. His books have sold more than 30 million copies worldwide. According to Google Scholar, his body of work appears in more than 10,000 scientific peer-reviewed articles.
“Without changing our pattern of thought, we will not be able to solve the problems we created with our current patterns of thought.” – Albert Einstein, Ph.D.
Nobel prize-winning physicist who’s regarded by most scientists as the smartest person who has ever lived.
“The human mind is an incredible pattern-matching machine.” – Jeff Bezos
Founder of Amazon.com and one of the richest people in the world with a net worth of 236 billion dollars as of 2025.
“A person is a pattern of behavior, of a larger awareness. ” – Deepak Chopra M.D.
The first medical doctor to scientifically create a bridge between western and eastern medicine. He’s also written 91 books on spirituality and alternative medicine… selling over 20 million copies worldwide.
“Personal Growth can actually be quite scientific. Our values are our hypotheses: this behavior is good and important; that other behavior is not. Our actions are the experiments; the resulting emotions and thought patterns are our data.” – Mark Manson
Three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author. His books have sold over 14 million copies worldwide. His work has been translated into more than 65 languages and hit bestseller lists in sixteen different countries. He also runs one of the most visited self-help blogs in the world, with over 15M+ visitors, every month.
“Pattern Recognition is a key part of a growth mindset. You must be curious and open to seeing the patterns so you can move forward with learning skills that will help your overall growth.” – Tom Bilyeu
Co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a billion-dollar company. He’s also the founder of Impact Theory. It’s a YouTube channel with almost 4.5 million subscribers… dedicated to empowering people by sharing advice from elite entrepreneurs, athletes, celebrities, and scientists. Here he is next to A-list movie star John Travolta.
“People operate from a place of Repetition Compulsion and it’s this repetition of behavior that creates patterns.” – Sigmund Freud, M.D., Ph.D.
Founder of Psychoanalysis and the father of modern psychology.
Patterns also emerge in dating and relationships.
They’re present whenever a man interacts with a woman he’s interested in, even if he’s not aware of them.
So if you don’t have the love life you want…
It’s because there are patterns and rules in dating that you’re not aware of.
You can’t win the dating game without understanding its rules first.
If you enter the wrong combination and the safe doesn’t open… it doesn’t mean you’re broken or that something is wrong with you. It just means you need the right combination to open it. The same applies to women and dating.
If you understand how to spot and use dating patterns correctly, then you can:
- Meet beautiful women every day...
- Go on hot dates every week...
- Attract and keep your ideal woman for life...
No matter your looks, age, or race.
Unfortunately…
Even smart guys get caught up in their emotions and negative thoughts if they like someone.
It’s not their fault they have a crush or are in love.
We’ve all known someone who was BLINDLY in love, right?
But it’s hard to spot dating patterns when you are emotional.
That’s why you need a coach who can tell you the cold, hard truth.
Think about it:
Do you want a coach who’s just nice, or do you want one who gets you results?
As a German engineer, I’m the opposite of fake politeness, romance, and seduction.
People might say it’s a weakness in dating, but it has been my biggest strength:
Busted!
- As a German, my ice-cold, cultural background helps me analyze all of my dating discoveries objectively...
- Also, I'm a certified financial engineer, so I’m trained in spotting even the most hidden patterns…
- And you can trust my ability as a German engineer to create efficient systems that (when used correctly) work every single time...
This is how I’ve been able to build efficient step-by-step systems that help you attract and keep the woman you want:
You might think: “But every woman is different.”
Sure, but doesn’t every woman have to drink water, eat, and breathe?
Just like she has physical needs, she also has a need for safety, love, and belonging. This isn’t an opinion. It’s been proven by researchers, sociologists, and famous psychologists such as Abraham Maslow, B. F. Skinner, and Esther Perel, to name a few.
Now that you’re aware that dating and relationship patterns exist, you have a choice to make:
You can try to discover them yourself…
Or…
Learn from the countless experiments I’ve already conducted… and join the few men who are smart enough to become aware of the patterns of women and dating.
Why do men from 5 continents and 27+ countries
already trust me with their dating life?
Why do men from 5 continents and 27+ countries already trust me with their dating life?
“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes…
The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.”
– Otto von Bismarck (Founding father of Germany and its first chancellor, in 1871)
Here I am giving a speech in Berlin on how to naturally approach a woman. It was in 2012 and I was invited as an expert to share my knowledge and experience.
- For 14 months, I spent at least 5 hours a day talking to women in the streets of Düsseldorf... tracking of all my discoveries in my daily journal....
- I have been sharing my Efficient Dating Systems with smart, single men since 2012... giving live talks and in-person coaching all over Europe, North America, and Asia...
- I use a hidden microphone to analyze my clients' approaches and dates so that I can give them proper feedback. After doing this for over a decade, I've studied 1000+ hours of interactions my clients had with women...
- I've discovered hundreds of dating patterns in many different scenarios – both online and in person – so you don’t have to...
- For the first three years of my career, I used an Excel sheet to track my clients' progress for twelve months after I coached them: I did this for 100 private clients to measure and improve my teaching skills... I've wanted to make sure that I can deliver long-term results for my clients. My efforts paid off. But as a lifelong learner, I can't rest on my achievements. I always strive to optimize my teachings... Your success is my job, and a German takes his job very seriously...
- I've helped many men bounce back after a bad experience with a dating coach. My clients jokingly refer to my coaching as the Pick-Up Artist Recovery...
- Three of my clients even changed careers, and started to help single men attract and keep their ideal woman after coaching with me. One of them was even invited to give a Tedx Talk...
- My clients regularly invite me to their weddings as a thank-you for how I transformed their dating life: Helping them meet, attract, and marry the woman they thought they could never have...
- At this stage of my career, money’s not my goal anymore: I get way more satisfaction to see smart men like you attract and keep the woman they've always fantasized about. That’s also why I left the cold, rational, and pattern-based banking world more than a decade ago, to become a dating engineer. Seeing an attractive woman kissing one of my clients still feels very rewarding. It’s even better when I know they “tried everything” before, and finally getting results with my help...
Don’t just take my word for it:
See what other men and their new wives say about me...
“I was hopeless when it came to women. But after training I was able to go for the women I like without being afraid of anything. And as a 39 year old, I got married to my 26 year old dream girl. This is what happens when you get coaching with B. Herman.”
Nadira K, Civil Engineer, 39 years old, Brisbane, Australia.
“With what you shared with me, I feel deep down that I’m enough. I just feel masculine by being myself and women feel it and are attracted to it. Before when I talked to a woman I felt rejected and afraid she’ll only like me for my money. But now I feel she likes me for who I am. Thank you B. Herman. I’m very grateful.”
Tony L, Entrepreneur, 30 years old, Paris, France.
“I went from one to two dates a year to one or two dates a week. Changing from trying to impress to actually being the guy who wants to be impressed.”
Ryan S, Banker, 28 years old, Heath and Reach, United Kingdom.
“B. Herman you help men transform because what you are teaching comes from a good place primarily. I believe you truly care. And your knowledge truly sets you apart from all the rest in the dating industry.”
Stefan C, Teacher, 29 years old, London, United Kingdom.
“You are a genius my man. You should write a book on how to connect with women and sell it!”
Biren T (with his wife), Salesman, 35 years old, San Francisco, USA.
To earn your trust…
Let me offer you some of my best dating discoveries for FREE:
I don’t want you to invest in my assistance without being fully convinced.
That’s why I’ve written several solid articles to help you on your dating journey.
But I’ll let you be the judge…
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