FOR SMART, SINGLE MEN ONLY:

Finally discover how to get almost any
woman to choose you over other men
...
Using the very first Efficient Dating Systems
made in Germany
...

Finally discover how to get almost any woman to choose you over other men... Using the very first Efficient Dating Systems
made in Germany
...

My systems work especially if you’re introverted, shy, or inexperienced. My clients didn’t believe it until they tried
them firsthand.
So I understand if you’re suspicious…
Clients of Become Her Man.

My systems work especially if you’re introverted, shy, or inexperienced. My clients didn’t believe it until they tried them firsthand. So I understand if you’re suspicious…

Dear smart, single guy… 

I know you’ve been promised many things in the past that didn’t work out the way you expected.

So, to avoid this and to start on the right foot:

Will you allow me to ask you a few simple questions to make sure my Efficient Dating Systems are truly for you?

That way, you can decide for yourself if they’re what you’re looking for.

Are my Efficient Dating Systems made for you?

Just between us:

If this is you, then I have some good and bad news

Why has dating become so complicated?

Let’s start with the bad news.

It was never as difficult for single men to find their significant other as it is today.

Here’s why:

Reason #1: There are way more single men between the ages of 25-49 than single women...

That’s what the Pew Research Center reported in 2020. 

In fact, 51% of all men between 18-29 in the US are single. 

But for women, it’s only 32%:

Statistics about how many single guys want to become her man.

There are far LESS single women than single men in the U.S. Simply put: “There aren’t enough lids for all the pots.

The shocking truth:

There are at least 2 men fighting for the same woman.

And it’s even worse if you’re a single man above 30. 

First, you have to compete with younger men.

Second, there are fewer single women between 30-49 than in any other age range.

But it’s not just in the US. 

According to Forbes and the Times, it’s a global trend.

Reason #2: Older men no longer teach younger guys how to attract women...

My dad was married by the age of 21. 

But when I was 21, I couldn’t even say ‘hi’ to a woman without having a few drinks. 

It’s not the best example of rock-solid, unshakeable, and grounded masculine confidence, right? 

I hate to admit it but I’m jealous of my dad. 

When he was a teenager, the older guys in his neighborhood showed him how to act around women. And when he got older, he taught the new kids. It was like a torch being passed on from generation to generation. 

But my dad never sat me down and taught me how to behave around women

When I asked him why, he replied: “I assumed your older brother or his friends would teach you.” 

I’m sorry dad, but those times are long gone.

Reason #3: Society sends mixed signals about what it means to be a man...

Look at the world today:

Shirt saying become her man is trash.

Here’s a screenshot of Etsy.com. T-shirts, sweaters, phone cases, etc. with the same slogan are also being sold on Amazon and other sites.

Meanwhile, media outlets such as Vice magazine and the New York Post report:

Ukrainian president Volodymyr Zelesnkyy became an instant sex symbol for staying in Ukraine to fight the Russians instead of running away like a coward.

They praise him for embodying all the qualities that some would label as ‘toxic masculinity.’

At no point in history were men so confused about what it means to be a man

And scientific research shows this confusion also affects men physiologically:

Testerone levels show a steady decrease among young men, and the sperm count among western men has dropped by over 50 percent since 1973. 

Reason #4: "Women don't know what they want anymore."

Men are not the only ones suffering:

“Where have all the good men gone?”

This is such a popular phrase that there are songs and books about it. 

Multiple studies have shown what women truly want in a man.

Women are attracted to character traits primarily associated with masculinity: 

Discipline, ambition, and not giving a f*ck attitude, to name a few. 

This desire seems so deeply rooted that some studies even suggest women can smell if a man has those personality traits or not. But then the same studies also show women also want a kind man. No wonder you’re confused:

Do you have to be strong or kind? 

Should you embrace your masculinity or your emotions

If you’re lost, you aren’t alone. 

It seems like even women don’t know what to pursue anymore: 

Should they focus on their career or on starting a family? 

Or both?

Reason #5: Traditional education doesn’t teach you about dating, sex, and love...

School doesn’t teach you how to behave like a man anymore

There’s sex education but the biggest insight you’ll get there is how to put a condom on a banana.

And clubs like the Boy Scouts – the largest youth organization that helped shape boys into men for over a century – are now admitting girls as well. Despite the girls already having an organization of their own since 1912.

But as of now, the Girl Scouts don’t accept anyone who identifies as a boy

Tell me who’s being discriminated against here?

No wonder so many boys are growing up without a clear definition of what it means to be a man. 

Even some female teachers have pointed this out in a New York Times article.

Reason #6: Absence of rituals that turn boys into men...

Modern society doesn’t require men to undertake a rite of passage.

In the past, these rites were designed to teach men valuable survival skills. And to test their strength and resilience. If a boy successfully completed these rites, there would be a ceremony marking his transition from boyhood to manhood. 

Renowned professor Robert L. Moore has described this in detail in his book, The Archetype of Initiation.

Warrior is trying to impress a girl to become her man.

Young Masais would have to slay a lion with just a spear, so their tribe accepted them as men.

Also:

In most countries, men don’t have to serve in the military to learn about strength, discipline, and risk-taking. 

Many credible studies in evolutionary biology have confirmed that these qualities are attractive to women

So it’s not surprising that surveys show men today are having much less sex as compared to previous generations. Experts in psychology blame this trend on young men taking much longer than they should to grow up. 

But how can they blame you if society lets you grow up confused? 

Speaking of society…

Reason #7: Society shames you for being ignorant about things you were never taught...

Divorce rates and single-mom households have increased significantly. 

So many boys grow up without a reliable masculine role model.

The worst part is:

Society still expects you to know how to attract a woman, maintain a healthy relationship, and be an extraordinary lover just because you have a d*ck

And if you can’t do it, then people shame you and assume something’s wrong with you.

But how can you know something that nobody taught you? 

It’s like assuming any man can fix a car just because he’s a MAN.

I definitely can’t.

Reason #8: What used to work for your dad and grandpa won’t work for you anymore...

The stereotype of men as breadwinners and women as homemakers is a thing of the past. 

In many countries, including the US, more women than men have jobs:

The best jobs to become her man.

In the US, women outnumber men in the workforce. So, women are no longer forced to rely on men for financial security like they used to.

This means for the first time in history…

Women don’t have to date, settle down, and put up with someone just for financial security

She can decide who to date and be in a relationship with based solely on how much she loves a guy. 

You have to bring your A-game

Whereas your dad and grandpa could make way more mistakes and still attract and keep their girl.

Reason #9: Online dating is much harder for men than for women...

Online dating comes with a catch that dating apps like Tinder or Bumble don’t want you to know. 

According to Statista, Tinder consists of 75.8% male and 24.2% female users:

Data showing how many guys on Tinder are trying to find their partner and become her man.

There aren’t enough women on Tinder for every guy to get his girl. 

And if you think Bumble’s any better, think again. 

They say that they have a 50/50 ratio. But Statista shows that 67.4% of Bumbles users are male while only 32.6% are female. This isn’t surprising given that there are more single men than women in the U.S. 

So don’t expect to find a dating app or site with more women than men:

Data about male users looking for a special girl to become her man.

Online dating is hard if you don’t know how to compete against the droves of guys who want the same thing as you.

In other words:

If you don’t know how to stand out from the other guys trying to get her attention, you’re doomed to fail at online dating before you even start swiping.

Reason #10: Too much misinformation… if it worked, you wouldn't be reading this right now:

Movies, TV shows, and magazines constantly bombard you non-stop with nonsense ideas on what women want. 

And your male friends just repeat the same advice they keep seeing on TV

I’ve actually tried it all:

I lost fat/gained muscle, bought a fancy car, and made my social media profiles seem like my life was always amazing

You wanna guess what results I got from all that? 

Nothing.

Also, whenever I asked women for dating advice, most of them said, “Treat her nicely and just be yourself.” 

Every time I did it that the woman would end up with a guy who was doing exactly the opposite; being an a$$hole.

And don’t even get me started on the dating industry: 

I respect everyone who’s sincerely trying to help single men, and I don’t want to talk badly about my profession.

But unfortunately:

There are way too many dating coaches, too many relationship courses, too much contradictory information… and a lot of it is useless

Like in any profession, some “experts” are giving incomplete or false advice. 

I’ve been working in the dating industry for over 10+ years. And many of my clients had worked with other coaches before but didn’t get the results they wanted. 

Usually, it boils down to the following reasons:

I hope you’re not too depressed: 

Because here’s the good news:

You didn’t know what was holding you back from meeting, attracting, and keeping your ideal woman…

Until now. 

Here’s your chance:

Will you take this opportunity, fully grasp it, and seize it with your hands? 

Or will you join the millions of men who never take advantage of opportunities and just complain about their bad luck? 

You have no excuses anymore. 

The choice is yours…

Choose wisely!

You're about to learn secrets most men will never know
about women and dating:

You're about to learn secrets most men will never know about women and dating:

Hi!

I’m B. Herman Mustermann, inventor of the Efficient Dating Systems Made in Germany.

But I’m known as Herman The German (Dating Engineer).

As a former ‘nice guy,’ I suffered a lot… until I got fed up with always seeing everyone but me get the girl. I went from getting rejected to women consistently saying ‘yes’ to me when I ask them out.

And it isn’t just a fake yes anymore; they really, deeply, and absolutely want to date me.

interviewed about dating advice to become her man.

Me giving an interview about my dating discoveries in Cologne in 2015. 

It was a long and painful journey to discover what really works in dating.

My journey involved countless embarrassing rejections, studying over 414 books, and taking three loans (19,609.87 Euros) to pay for various self-help seminars.

My goal is to save you time.

And help you avoid the pain and frustration I had to endure.

Plus, to offer you my experience…

So you can take control of your dating life and get the following results:

… By following efficient step-by-step systems.

How do I know the Efficient Dating Systems made in Germany will work for you?

Because they rely on:

The power of Dating Pattern Recognition – data doesn’t lie!

What happens if you hold an apple high above your head and let it go?

It will fall to the ground. If you do it a thousand times, it will fall a thousand times. 

In other words:

A pattern emerges, and we call it ‘Gravity.’

Gravity impacts all of us, even if we don’t understand how it works. And even if we believe that it doesn’t exist. Someone’s beliefs can’t defy the laws of physics. 

The rules will always be the same, and so will the results:

The apple will hit the ground whether we like it or not.

You can’t argue with nature because nature always wins.

And patterns are everywhere:

“If you can recognize patterns, you have an edge. Things look like chaos until you recognize there’s a pattern to things. If you understand patterns and recognize them and you can use them, you have real power.” – Anthony Robbins

Best-selling author of 65 million self-help books and audio products. A renowned life coach whose client list includes Leonardo Di Caprio, Nelson Mandela, Hugh Jackman, and many others. Here you can see him with his client Conor McGregor.

Jordan Peterson gives advice on how to become her man.

Human personality is a predictable and consistent science.” – Jordan Peterson, Ph.D.

World-renowned professor, clinical psychologist, and best-selling author. His books have sold more than 30 million copies worldwide. According to Google Scholar, his body of work appears in more than 10,000 scientific peer-reviewed articles.

Without changing our pattern of thought, we will not be able to solve the problems we created with our current patterns of thought.” – Albert Einstein, Ph.D.

Nobel prize-winning physicist who’s regarded by most scientists as the smartest person who has ever lived.

Albert Einstein gives advice on how to become her man.
Jeff Bezos gives advice on how to become her man.

“The human mind is an incredible pattern-matching machine.” – Jeff Bezos

Founder of Amazon.com and one of the richest people in the world with a net worth of 236 billion dollars as of 2025.

A person is a pattern of behavior, of a larger awareness. ” – Deepak Chopra M.D.

The first medical doctor to scientifically create a bridge between western and eastern medicine. He’s also written 91 books on spirituality and alternative medicine… selling over 20 million copies worldwide.

Deepak Chopra gives advice on how to become her man.
Mark Manson gives advice on how to become her man.

Personal Growth can actually be quite scientific. Our values are our hypotheses: this behavior is good and important; that other behavior is not. Our actions are the experiments; the resulting emotions and thought patterns are our data.” – Mark Manson

Three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author. His books have sold over 14 million copies worldwide. His work has been translated into more than 65 languages and hit bestseller lists in sixteen different countries. He also runs one of the most visited self-help blogs in the world, with over 15M+ visitors, every month.

Pattern Recognition is a key part of a growth mindset. You must be curious and open to seeing the patterns so you can move forward with learning skills that will help your overall growth.” – Tom Bilyeu

Co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a billion-dollar company. He’s also the founder of Impact Theory. It’s a YouTube channel with almost 4.5 million subscribers… dedicated to empowering people by sharing advice from elite entrepreneurs, athletes, celebrities, and scientists. Here he is next to A-list movie star John Travolta.

Tom Bilyeu gives advice on how to become her man.
Siegmund Freud gives advice on how to become her man.

“People operate from a place of Repetition Compulsion and it’s this repetition of behavior that creates patterns.” – Sigmund Freud, M.D., Ph.D.

Founder of Psychoanalysis and the father of modern psychology.

Patterns also emerge in dating and relationships.

They’re present whenever a man interacts with a woman he’s interested in, even if he’s not aware of them.

So if you don’t have the love life you want… 

It’s because there are patterns and rules in dating that you’re not aware of.

You can’t win the dating game without understanding its rules first.

Bank safe metaphor to help you Become Her Man.

If you enter the wrong code and the safe doesn’t open… it doesn’t mean you’re broken or that something is wrong with you. It just means you need the right combination to open it. The same applies to women and dating.

If you understand how to use dating patterns correctly, then you can:

No matter your looks, age, or race.

Unfortunately…

Even smart guys get caught up in their emotions and negative thoughts if they like someone.

It’s not their fault they have a crush or are in love.

We’ve all known someone who was BLINDLY in love, right?

But it’s hard to spot dating patterns when you are emotional.

That’s why you need a coach who can tell you the cold, hard truth.

Think about it:

Do you want a coach who’s just nice, or do you want one who gets you results?

As a German engineer, I’m the opposite of fake politeness, romance, and seduction.

People might say it’s a weakness in dating, but it has been my biggest strength:

Woman admitting she likes German guys.

Busted!

This is how I’ve been able to build efficient step-by-step systems that help you attract and keep the woman you want:

Method to become her man.

You might think: “But every woman is different.”

Sure, but doesn’t every woman have to drink water, eat, and breathe?

Just like she has physical needs, she also has a need for safety, love, and belonging. This isn’t an opinion. It’s been proven by researchers, sociologists, and famous psychologists such as Abraham Maslow, B. F. Skinner, and Esther Perel, to name a few.

Now that you’re aware that dating and relationship patterns exist, you have a choice to make:

You can try to discover them yourself…

Or…

Learn from the countless experiments I’ve already conducted… and join the few men who are smart enough to become aware of the patterns of women and dating.

Why do men from 5 continents and 27+ countries 
already trust me with their dating life?

Why do men from 5 continents and 27+ countries already trust me with their dating life?

Only a fool learns from his own mistakes…

The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

– Otto von Bismarck (Founding father of Germany and its first chancellor, in 1871)

Man teaches how to become her man.

Here I am giving a speech in Berlin on how to naturally approach a woman. It was in 2012 and I was invited as an expert to share my knowledge and experience.

Don’t just take my word for it:
See what other men and their new wives say about me...

“I was hopeless when it came to women. But after training I was able to go for the women I like without being afraid of anything. And as a 39 year oldI got married to my 26 year old dream girl. This is what happens when you get coaching with B. Herman.”

Nadira K, Civil Engineer, 39 years old, Brisbane, Australia.

“With what you shared with me, I feel deep down that I’m enough. I just feel masculine by being myself and women feel it and are attracted to it. Before when I talked to a woman I felt rejected and afraid she’ll only like me for my money. But now I feel she likes me for who I am. Thank you B. Herman. I’m very grateful.”

Tony L, Entrepreneur, 30 years old, Paris, France.

I went from one to two dates a year to one or two dates a week. Changing from trying to impress to actually being the guy who wants to be impressed.”  

Ryan S, Banker, 28 years old, Heath and Reach, United Kingdom. 

“B. Herman you help men transform because what you are teaching comes from a good place primarily. I believe you truly care. And your knowledge truly sets you apart from all the rest in the dating industry.”

Stefan C, Teacher, 29 years old, London, United Kingdom.

“You are a genius my man. You should write a book on how to connect with women and sell it!”

Biren T (with his wife), Salesman, 35 years old, San Francisco, USA.

Husband and wife show how to become her man.

To earn your trust…

Let me offer you some of my best dating discoveries for FREE:

I don’t want you to invest in my assistance without being fully convinced.

That’s why I’ve written several solid articles to help you on your dating journey.

But I’ll let you be the judge…

Which part of your dating life would you like to improve today?

Tips to gain confidence to become her man.
Here’s my client Vincent before & after his transformation…

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If there’s one thing all women find attractive, it’s confidence. Unfortunately, most men (even coaches I won’t name) don’t understand how confidence actually works. Read these articles to start becoming the kind of man amazing women are attracted to. Outer results always start from within. Embark on that new journey with me as your guide:
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