
Don’t let this smile fool you. Back in 2005… when I was still a virgin…
Guten Tag (Good Day), I’m B. Herman, but my friends call me Herman the German… When I was a single man, I had the same frustrations you may have right now… You may like this one special girl and you wish she’d be your girlfriend. Maybe you don’t know how to start a conversation with her or you may be friends with her already. But secretly, you love her. This is the story of my first crush. She was in my class and I’ll never forget her name: Maria…
For years, I was seen as just a friend by every girl I liked…
…even though I could’ve been so much more. I’d really do everything for the girl I liked. I’d always reply to her messages… listen to her for hours on the phone in the middle of the night… even if it was about the last guy that broke her heart…

Why is a woman so complicated anyway?
She says “JUST BE YOURSELF” but when you are yourself, she doesn’t want you…
Even if I got lucky and went on a date…
Women stopped talking to me the very next day… why me? What did I do?
Whenever I went on a date with a woman, she’d thank me for the date but when I’d text her the next day, she wouldn’t reply. And on the rare occasion that she would, it would say…

If you’re familiar with this, keep reading…
I felt so frustrated and angry. I’d invest so much time and money to go on a date with someone who’d stop replying without even telling me why. It made no f*cking sense. I felt like less of a man…
I tried everything…
Everybody said, “just be yourself” and “be more confident”…but how?
Maybe you thought about trying the same things I did:
- Workout to lose weight/build muscle, so she could see me as a strong man (but deep down, I still didn’t feel confident enough)
- Dress better, get a nice haircut, and buy a BMW to impress her (but feeling like a fake because I wasn’t rich)
- Get drunk to be more confident to talk to a beautiful woman in the club
- Be a nice guy (doing favors for her hoping she’ll like me in return)
- Hiring a professional photographer (that I could barely afford) just so I could have a chance at online dating
- Pretending to have an amazing lifestyle by posting my holiday pics (we both know it happens only 4 weeks a year, at the most)
But to be honest…
Not one single thing worked…
…I still couldn’t get a girl to like me and I couldn’t even get any responses online.
But still, I didn’t want to give up so I started doing the following:
- I read over 414 books on social intelligence, psychology, and communication… on Kindle alone. At one point my credit card got banned from Amazon because of suspicious behavior… to be clear I didn’t finish all the books like marketing liars say they do… what matters is I used every book to find the specific information I needed and skipped the useless chapters.

I was obsessed with Social Intelligence, Psychology, and Communication.
I thought this knowledge would make it easy for me to get and keep a girlfriend…
- I took three loans (totaling €19,609.87) just so I could attend many self-help seminars. I didn’t even tell my family and friends about it because I was ashamed.



Second:
- I went out for 3 months just to practice talking to women (in cafés, on the bus, and in stores, etc.) based on what I’d learned from self-help seminars and books.
- One the weekends, I went clubbing ALONE just so I could talk to women without being distracted by my friends.
I was OBSESSED… like there was nothing else for me…
But I still felt miserable. Especially when I couldn’t even say “Hello” to a girl because I thought she was out of my league…
I was about to give up hope when something unexpected happened…
I tried things that were totally counter-intuitive…


The knowledge that qualified me to work for Germany’s “Wall Street”
helped me uncover what really works with women…
This was my eureka moment: What if a vast majority of men fail because they can’t make objective decisions when it comes to their dating lives?

For 14 months, I spent at least 5 hours a day (more on weekends) talking to women in the streets of Düsseldorf and I kept track of all my discoveries in a daily journal. I skipped my uni classes, had no job, and lived off the money I got from scholarships and loans.


I was able to coldly analyze hundreds of dating interactions to find the most recurring patterns. I realized the mistakes most men make, why they repel women, and what exactly a man must say and do instead…
My clients are living proof of this and they’re the true heroes here. I showed them the path but they mustered the courage to take action to achieve their dating goals.
To see what my students say about me: click here

But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s step back to the time I was talking to women and kept track of what I’d learned in my daily journal.
After 14 months of trial and error, my friends were getting impressed by my discoveries…

She can’t wait to see me and show me her new “Stewardess Uniform”.
One day I woke up and realized… women were now chasing me… It became my new life and my friends started asking me how I did it…

Women started noticing me WITHOUT saying a word…
All kinds of women…from stewardesses to lawyers to massage therapists…
I was finally able to date an attractive woman almost anywhere and anytime.

This model-looking girl mocked me when I told her I’d figured out women… But of course, she was speechless after we had sex at my place… 🙂
Afterwards…Valerie, just asked me about why I understand women so well? So I told her everything I went through to date women. She was impressed.
Efficient


Dating System


Made in Germany


Efficient


Dating System


Made in Germany



The foundation, that Become Her Man: the first collection of Efficient Dating Systems Made in Germany, is built upon.
Some coaches will probably copy my methods later on… I always like to buy from the original but it’s up to you. I’m sure you can find cheaper coaches as well. But I only care about efficiency and efficiency has a price, right? My grandfather Ben always told me it’s better to buy the original Volkswagen Beetle at full price than it is to buy a cheap copy and then pay for constant repairs. You may save money today but it’ll cost you stress, time, and a lot more money tomorrow.


Once it worked for my best friend, I started to share my Systems with men all around the world.
I’ve been coaching clients in person for 10 years. I had no website, no YouTube channel, or any other online presence. The only way for me to make a living was if past clients referred other men to me.
8 years before I started building my online presence.
Timo applied what I taught him and went from overcoming his fear of starting a conversation with a woman to getting phone numbers and dates with multiple women…
What worked for Timo back then will also work for you today…
For years, many of my clients really tried to convince me to make my knowledge accessible to the public but I never had the time to do it because I was too busy with in-person coaching. But then the coronavirus pandemic hit and while it was a shock at first, I saw it as an opportunity to finally make my knowledge available to as many people as possible.
So why am I sharing my Efficient Dating Systems Made in Germany with you?
I have a confession to make:

Your success is my job and a German takes his job very seriously.
Let me help you to get and keep an attractive woman…
To earn your trust, I’m giving you a template – at no cost to you (for now) – as an introduction to my Efficient Dating Systems. You’re going to learn how to get the woman to text you back even if she’s been ignoring you for days, weeks, or months.
Read this template carefully even if you’re already great at texting a girl or you’re currently in a relationship because it contains a powerful lessons that’s never been released publicly. The template will improve your current or future relationship.

I offer you a German appetizer – on the house (for now)
– so you can get a taste of Efficient Dating Systems. 🙂
For the report, click here.

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