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Daygame: What is it and how to use it to meet attractive women in 2024

Daygame: What is it and how to use it to meet attractive women in 2024

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Daygame: What is it and how to use it to meet attractive women in 2024

Our grandfathers called it normal:

Going outside and talking to girls in coffee places, on buses, restaurants, etc. 

And we call it Daygame. 

The good news is that it worked for our grandfathers, and it’ll still work for us today.

But the bad news is that most guys who try it out end up getting rejected by most women they talk to. 

To spare you from rejection city, I’ll show you how to do Daygame the right way so you can get dates from it in 2024. 


Let’s start by taking a look at how the most successful Daygame systems were created…

What is Daygame? 

It’s the art of approaching women you don’t know outside of clubs and bars. It gives you the freedom to approach women at any place and at any time. It can drastically increase your options for meeting new women compared to most guys, which is why many men like the idea of Daygame.

Does Daygame still work today?

Daygame was invented by pickup artists in London around the early 2000s…

But it spread all across the globe thanks to the viral video of Sascha Daygame.

Here’s the video showing Sascha approaching girls in the city centre of London:


This video opened the eyes of many guys, showing that you can meet women without going to bars and clubs. 

But can you still use Daygame today in the post-COVID area? 


Nowadays almost all guys rely on online dating to get dates. So you have less competition in the real world. 

However, the times have changed a bit and many of the old techniques that used to work won’t get you far anymore. 

So, let’s look at how the dating industry has taught Daygame till now… and why I recommend a totally different style.

How does ‘traditional’ Daygame work?

There are two different types of Daygame.

Indirect and direct. 

I learned both from the two guys who invented them. 

I even coached with the creator of the direct method, Sascha Daygame.

Two coaches listening to a client doing Daygame
Sascha Daygame and I listening to an approach from a client.

I’m his former head coach in Germany.

And I can tell you one thing, knowing what I know now: 

Both methods suck. 

To show you what I mean, look at the common structure of both types of Daygame:

Overview of different styles of Daygame

I don’t say all of this is crap.

If a man dares to approach, he’ll already get more results than the guy who’ll never do it. 

But it takes countless hours of trial and error and becomes a pure numbers game for most (except Leonardo DiCaprio). 

There’s a much more efficient way to approach women, without endless approach marathons. 

When done correctly, it usually only takes two approaches to get a date.

Efficient Daygame

Dude this is so gay but why do women respond so freaking well to it?” 

This was a client’s reaction when I first showed him what you’re about to see. 

So why not show it to you as well: 

Text conversation with a woman about Daygame
This would work offline as well. Just change it to: “I had trouble to come up and say hi to you but I thought I gave it a try.”

In a nutshell: I said exactly what most men would have on their mind without a filter.

This not only works online but also when you approach her in the streets:

But why does this work so well? 

It’s the most authentic thing you can do. 

Because that’s what you do with all your friends all the time, you say what comes to your mind at that specific moment. 

And it’s natural, and it flows, which is what you want with your dates as well, right? 

So let me show you the 5 steps to approach women authentically…

5 Steps to an Authentic Daygame Approach

Step #1: Tell her what you really think 

When you feel nervous or something else is holding you back you should say it as the first thing when you start the conversation.

For example:

“Excuse me, I’m quite nervous right now and I think you’re out of my league…”

Step #2: Introduce yourself and explain to her why you talk to her

She’ll be skeptical, so to calm her down, you need to let her know straight away that you like her. 

For example:

“…But I really like you and I would regret it all day if I didn’t come up and say hi to you. Hi, my name is Peter. What’s your name?”

Step #3: Lower her expectation 

Meeting a new woman for the first time can be nerve-wracking. To make it easier for yourself, the best thing is to straight out admit it before you even start to get to know her.

For example:

“I’m not doing this very often so bear with me if I don’t say something funny or witty on the spot.” 

Step #4: Talk about her favorite topic

Focus all your attention on getting to know her. Don’t talk about the weather or other small talk topics. Instead, talk about her and share about yourself as well to make her feel more comfortable opening up to you.

For example:

You: “What do you do for a living?”

Her: “Lawyer”

You: “What made you to study law?”

Step #5: Give her a reason why you want her number 

When it’s time to ask for her number, what I found works best is to give her a valid reason why you want to get it.

All you have to do is explain that you would like to see her again based on what she told you about herself.

For example:

“I really like that you’re honest, spontaneous and adventures. And because of that I would love to get to know you even better. I have to go now but let’s stay in touch over WhatsApp. So what’s your number?”

Common Daygame situations

Of course, there will be certain circumstances you can’t control, even if you’re Daygame is godlike. 

Here are some of them: 

First: What to do if she’s in a hurry? 

Look at how fast she walks before you approach her. 

If she’s walking fast then it’s an easy assumption to say that she’s in a hurry. In that case, your goal should be to get her number or social media contacts quickly.

Also when she says in the middle of the conversation: “I’m sorry I have to go.”

You can reply: “Just one more thing before you walk out from my life forever.”

This will give you enough time to ask for her number. 

Second: What if she says she has a boyfriend?

The term boyfriend can mean a lot of things.

She might still say it because she broke up recently with him but is used to saying it. She might call the guy she was on just one date with her boyfriend. Or she might say it out of reflex because she’s not used to getting approached.  

It doesn’t matter.

The easiest way to answer this objection is a funny reply aligned with your humor.

I have a client who always likes to say this: “Cool and I have a Playstation.”

It works for him because he finds it funny.

And then you can keep the conversation going.

But if she’s in a happy relationship, she’ll bring him up again during the conversation.

If that’s the case, you should respect that. 

However, if she’s a cool person, you can win another female friend who can introduce you to her single friends. 

Third: What to do if she doesn’t say much?

The most important thing is not to assume she doesn’t like you.

Most likely, she’s shy and doesn’t know how to react. 

Just assume that as long as she’s still talking to you, she’s interested. 

Don’t decide for her that she’s not into you. 

Ask her out and give her the choice to say yes or no to a date. 

Your Efficient Dating Advisor,

Herman the German

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PS: Here are the two most common questions guys ask online about Daygame:

Is cold approaching illegal?

There’s only one place in the world where it’s illegal. The country that is known for romance all over the world, France, will give you fines when you approach women in the streets. So, if you live or travel there, be careful when you talk to women.

Is Daygame better than Nightgame?

It’s like asking what is better, steak or sushi? It depends on your preferences. If you don’t enjoy clubbing and only consider doing Nightgame to meet women, then Daygame is definitely the better choice for you. But if you’re a party animal who only feels comfortable on the dance floor, then Nightgame is better suited for you.

Guten Tag, I’m Herman the German, original inventor of the Efficient Dating Systems Made in Germany.

I help smart, single men finally get and keep the girl they really want.

Using my background as a Frankfurt-trained financial engineer, I went on a quest to find dating patterns that truly work – my friends asked me to use my cold analytical skills to help them notice recurring patterns in their dating life.

This has been my single obsession since 2012.

Throughout my decade-long research, I was interviewed by German media, curious to know what I’d identified. And I was invited on many occasions to talk on stage as a guest expert – although I prefer the term life-long learner as I keep discovering new principles and techniques in my private practice.

As an introduction to my systems, I’m offering you to try my proven conversation starter template to make almost any woman interested in you, at no cost.

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